I crept up to the door and knocked.
I was scared — just a little — but far too excited to pay the fear much attention.
A gruff voice bellowed (just another part of the routine), “Who is it?”
Quietly, I whispered, “It’s Nancy, Mr. Hoag.”
“What do you want?” he yelled. (As if he doesn’t already know.)
Larger than life is the image that approached the back door. His low, raspy voice bellowed out of his warm, smiling face. A smile is all I needed! I am instantly reassured and feel welcomed. In a matter of seconds, I lead my gang of four or five neighborhood kids and two brothers through the house to the living room.
There it was — the complete set-up. Two chairs, facing each other, on either side of the square iron floor register. In the center of the register sat a huge, yellow enamel wash basin filled to the rim with fresh hot popcorn.
Mr. Hoag knew the way to my heart was through my nose!
I was the undisputed most dedicated popcorn lover of the whole group of kids living on the hill. The aroma filled the air and caused a magnetic attraction… kids and snacks, a natural combination. There was no better smell on earth than Mr. Hoag’s home-grown, fluffy, white kernel popcorn. On a little wooden stool sat a stack of white paper bags.
One by one, we took our turn sitting on the chair opposite this grand man, chatting with him while he fills our bag.
He listened to each one of us with great interest. Whether we told him our troubles or victories, he listened intently. Our words were important to him. Our opinions mattered to him. He never made fun of us or what we told him. He said few words but we knew we were valued and worthy of this man’s attention. After all, he took the time to make us popcorn and to listen.
We each gave him a heartfelt thank you and a warm hug, even the boys did! Well, except for John and Joey. They were the older ones and Mr. Hoag acknowledged their “big-boy” status with a handshake.
On the couch, at the other end of the living room was his beautiful wife, grinning as she watched the parade. Although they had no children of their own, Mrs. Hoag, an English teacher at my school and Mr. Hoag were child-friendly folks. They loved us and we could feel it. Cared for and strengthened, we confidently ran off, treats in hand.
I’m not sure what we loved more… the popcorn, or Mr. Hoag! I do know that I was a scapegoat for my peers at school, with their childish and often painful pranks. My parents loved me and suffered when I came home crying from school. They told me of my worth and encouraged me as best they could. But, typical of a child, I thought they had to say all that!
They were my Mom and Dad and had to love me.
So, heavenly backup was provided and my self-esteem was restored nightly, by a 75-year-old, ornery, teddy bear who knew the power of popcorn. He used that delicious treat to show how he cared for not only me, but for all the neighborhood kids.
I am so thankful that this wonderful man took the time and effort to make a difference in our lives.
Showing interest, acceptance, and love took so little time. But the affects will be with us for a lifetime and with our children, too.
Source: Thanks for sharing this with me Nancy Eckerson
Today, if this story inspired you; make someone’s day special…and keep it up. Make a day, a special day once a week for those special people in your life. Treat them with love everyday, and every week.
P.S. Popcorn is very cheap and super good!
The God’s Word states:
1 Tim 5:25 “Likewise also the good works of some are manifest beforehand; and they that are otherwise cannot be hid.”
1 Thess 5:21 “Prove all things; hold fast that which is good.”
1 Thess 5:15 “See that none render evil for evil unto any man; but ever follow that which is good, both among yourselves, and to all men.”
Col 1:10 “That ye might walk worthy of the Lord unto all pleasing, being fruitful in every good work, and increasing in the knowledge of God;…”
Eph 6:8 “Knowing that whatsoever good thing any man doeth, the same shall he receive of the Lord, whether he be bond or free.”
Eph 6:7 “With good will doing service, as to the Lord, and not to men:…”
Mt 25:45 “Then shall he answer them, saying, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye did it not to one of the least of these, ye did it not to me.”
Mt 19:14 But “Jesus said, Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto me: for of such is the kingdom of heaven.”