A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and four-year old grandson. The old man’s hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered. The family ate together at the table. However, the elderly grandfather’s shaky hands and failing sight made eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor. When he grasped the glass, milk spilled on the tablecloth. The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess.
“We must do something about Grandfather,” said the son. ” I’ve had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor.” Therefore, the husband and wife set a small table in the corner. There, Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner. Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl. When the family glanced in Grandfather’s direction, sometimes he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone. Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food. The four-year-old watched it all in silence.
One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps on the floor. He asked the child sweetly, “What are you making?” Just as sweetly, the boy responded, “Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and Mama to eat your food in, when I grow up.” The four-year-old smiled and went back to work. The parents were speechless. Then tears started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done.
That evening, the husband took Grandfather’s hand and gently led him back to the family table. For the remainder of his days, he ate every meal with the family. Moreover, for some reason, neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the tablecloth became soiled.
Children are remarkably perceptive. Their eyes observe, ears listen, and minds process the messages they absorb. If they see us patiently provide a happy home atmosphere for family members, they will imitate that attitude for the rest of their lives.
The wise parent realizes that every day the building blocks are being laid for the child’s future. Therefore, let’s be wise builders and role models!
*Foot Notes: 1. Don’t let the state, schools or other people with questionable character raise your children; you never know what you might get back.
2. They say, “Children are the future” But how will you fit in with their’s?
Prov 17:6 “Children’s children are the crown of old men; and the glory of children are their fathers.”
Prov 23:22 “Hearken unto thy father that begat thee, and despise not thy mother when she is old.”
Prov 20:11 “Even a child is known by his doings, whether his work be pure, and whether it be right.”
Prov 22:6 “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”
Prov 22:15 “Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him.”
Prov 23:13 “Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die. ”